Prt 2: God Broke the Mold When He Made You

This sets you up for: A mindset that finally stops nitpicking and starts honoring your design.

👑: You weren't made to blend in. You were built to Reign…

If you’ve ever felt like you’re too much of this or not enough of that—pause. Take a breath. This is your reminder that the very things you’ve tried to hide might just be the blueprint to your purpose. You're not a copy. You're a custom job. God broke the mold when He made you, sis—and He did it on purpose.

👑: We've spent too long trying to fix what was never broken.

From our noses to our thighs to our voices to our personalities—we’ve been trained to edit ourselves. To conform. To shrink. To cover.
You know how it goes:

“If only my forehead were smaller”

“I wish my nose was straighter”

“This part of me just isn’t ‘feminine’ enough, ‘normal’ enough, ‘cute’ enough…”

We end up stuck in a cycle of comparison and critique, treating our unique design like a mistake instead of a miracle.

👑: I've been there too. I used to nitpick everyyyyything.

Back in my pre-med days (yes girl, science class and all!), there’s one phrase I’ll never forget:

“Structure fits function.”

In biology, it means this: the way something is built directly supports what it was meant to do.

Think about a cheetah. Long limbs, light frame, lean muscles. It’s not built like a lion, because it's not meant to be. If you gave it a lion’s body, it would lose its God-given edge — its ability to fly across the plains at 70 mph.

And that hit me one day. I’m not built like her… because I’m not called like her.

The features I spent years trying to change weren’t flaws. They were clues. Clues to the unique way God wants to move through me.

And the same is true for you.

👑: It's time to stop nitpicking and start honoring your design.

You were built different. And that’s not a problem — it’s a strategy.

God didn’t put you together on accident. You’re not a glitch. You’re a God-thought.

📖 Psalm 139:14 says you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

That includes your voice. Your build. Your tone. Your curves. Your quirks.

When I started documenting what God said about me—not what the world suggested—I started to shift.

I stopped praying for a new body and started praising God for the one I have.
I stopped asking “Why am I like this?” and started asking “What is this here to do?”

That’s what My Vision Planner became for me:
📓 A sacred space to hold the truth.

📓 A mirror that reflects God’s design, not culture’s critique.

📓 A place to record the revelations and words I needed to come back to when insecurity tried to sneak in.

If you’re tired of shrinking and ready to shine the way you were meant to, start here. The planner isn’t just pages—it’s a mindset shift.

👉🏽 Click My Vision Planner to grab yours and start documenting the design God already called good.

👑: Next up: The Crown Fits. See the Woman Who'll Wear It.

👑 The Crown Fits. See the Woman Who’ll Wear It.

We’re done hiding. In the next post, we’re pulling back the curtain and envisioning the healed, bold, powerful version of you. You can’t walk like royalty if you don’t recognize the Queen.

Get ready to meet her.

P.S.

Your purpose can’t find you if you’re not there.
Stop playing dress-up in someone else’s calling.
Start showing up fully in yours.

With Love,

Melissa Ingrid Lawrence