Prt 1: It’s God’s Image — His Opinion Is the Only One That Matters

👑: Sis, You’ve Been Lied To…

Turns out the mirror isn’t broken—your perspective is. Here’s where the truth begins.

Let’s be real — the world’s reflection of you is all kinds of warped. Social media, culture, and even well-meaning people tell you you’re not enough. Too this, not enough that. But what if I told you, the real problem isn’t you — it’s what you’ve believed about yourself?

👑: The Beauty Standard Is a Scam—and You're Its Target

You’ve been trained to feel less-than, and it’s costing you your confidence, purpose, and joy.

From a young age, society teaches us that beauty, worth, and value come from fitting a narrow mold—because your insecurities profit someone. If they keep you chasing trends, products, and impossible ideals, you stay spiritually bankrupt while those businesses grow financially abundant. But that mold isn’t made for queens like us. It’s a trap designed to keep us chasing, doubting, and feeling small. And sis, I see you—because I was caught in that cycle too.

👑: When You Don’t Know Who You Are, You’ll Believe Anything

Let’s talk about why it hurts so bad—and why you’re not alone in this struggle.
I remember a time when I couldn’t walk past a mirror without criticizing something: my stomach wasn’t flat enough, my skin had too many marks, my smile wasn’t bright enough. I was constantly tweaking, shrinking, hiding, fixing.

Then one day, while I was nitpicking my appearance in the mirror, I believe the Holy Spirit brought a question to my mind that changed everything. As I was thinking, my forehead was too big, I remember hearing, “As compared to who?”

It wasn’t until that moment I realized that to make a comparison statement like that, there must have been some imaginary person I was comparing myself to. In that moment, the saying, “Comparison is the thief of joy,” became more than a saying — I observed up close and personal how much of a tormentor comparison can be.

But the root issue wasn’t physical—it was spiritual. I didn’t know who I was. And because I didn’t know who I was, I allowed the world to tell me who I should be.
Once you understand that beauty is not something to earn, but something to uncover, everything changes.

👑: Heaven’s Mirror Never Lies

The moment everything changed? When I looked in the mirror of God’s Word. Here's what I saw.

God says you are fearfully and wonderfully made. (Psalm 139:14) He created you in His image. (Genesis 1:27) That means the opinion that matters most? His. Not Instagram, not your ex, not the latest beauty trend. When I anchored my identity in His Word, my worth no longer depended on approval or perfection. It was a total game-changer.

👑: Beauty Isn’t a Goal — It’s a Revelation

This isn’t self-help. It’s soul-reminding. You’re not just beautiful—you’re chosen.
Beauty isn’t about chasing a look or fitting a mold — it’s about unveiling who God created you to be. And sis, that woman? She’s already inside you, waiting to step out with confidence and purpose.

👑: From Heaven’s Mouth to Your Heart—Write It, Believe It, Become It

The woman God designed you to be has always been there. It’s time to record what He says about you—and keep it close.

On my journey to transforming my mind, I kept record of God’s Word so that anytime the world’s lies confronted me, I could silence any voice by responding with what my Creator thinks about me. Sadly, in my past, I had no organized method of referring back to what I wrote—until My Vision Planner.

This isn’t just a planner—it’s a sacred space to document truth. A place to anchor your identity in Scripture, renew your mind daily, and reflect on the woman God already calls you: worthy, radiant, chosen, enough.

For those that are ready to stop letting lies define you and start living from what God has already declared, grab your planner here My Vision Planner.

👑: Next up: God Broke the Mold When He Made You

We’re done playing small. In the next post, we’ll start looking at the unique features you’ve tried to hide—and why they’re not flaws, but clues to your divine design.

What you’ll gain: A fresh look at your “flaws” — and how they’re actually strengths. Learn why your unique design isn’t random, but perfectly built for your purpose.