Prt 3: The Crown Fits. See The Woman Who'll Wear It

What your future self will thank you for: Getting clear on her- the woman you were always meant to become. - Melissa Ingrid Lawrence

Hey girl hey,

👑: You can't walk like royalty if you don't recognize the Queen.

You say you're ready to level up… but can you even picture what your highest self looks like?

If you’ve ever struggled to connect with the best version of you — not the one they told you to be, but the one God designed — this is the part where that changes.

The crown fits. Now it's time to see the woman who'll wear it.

👑: We're out here praying for a glow-up with no vision of what it looks like.

We scroll. We compare. We pick a little from her, borrow a little from them, and try to piece together a version of ourselves that we think the world will applaud.

But let’s be real — if you’re building an identity out of fragments that were never yours, you’ll always feel like something’s missing.

And even worse?

You might achieve the glow-up — body, career, aesthetic, applause — and still feel hollow inside.

Why?

Because you never stopped to define what your healed, whole, purpose-rooted version of you actually looked like.

👑: I used to think identity was something I'd stumble into.

That one day I’d wake up, and boom — I’d be her.
More confident. More stylish. More spirit-led. More healed.

But identity doesn’t just happen. It’s built.

And it starts with vision.

I had to ask myself hard questions:

What does healed me look like?

What does bold me sound like?

What does spirit-led me wear, say, create, believe?

And slowly, the fog lifted.

Not because I magically became her overnight, but because I saw her — clearly — and finally had something to aim for.

That’s what changed everything.

👑: Start envisioning her. Your highest self. And then walk like her.

Here’s one powerful way I’ve done this:

✨ Stand in front of the mirror.
✨ Look at your body — every part of it.
✨ Ask yourself: What would this look like enhanced? What areas need strength?

What habits would make this thrive?

Then I take that vision to my Vision Planner.

There’s a space to paste images — your version of beauty, wholeness, power.

There’s room to write out how she walks, how she talks, what she wears, how she nourishes her body, how she shows up.

Not based on pressure. Not based on trends.
But based on purpose.

Similar to how God sees the end from the beginning — this is you doing the same for you. You’re stepping into alignment with what He already sees when He looks at you. You’re building a clear picture of the healed, whole, powerful woman you are becoming — so you know exactly how to start being her.

📓 My Vision Planner isn’t just a tool — it’s a throne.

A sacred space where you build the blueprint of the Queen you were born to become.

👉🏽 Ready to see her clearly? Grab your planner My Vision Planner and let’s get to work.

👑: This is where most people get it backwards.

Let’s keep it 100:

We’re taught to change our image before we understand our identity.

But if you don’t know the truth of who you are — whose image you’re made in, why your structure fits your function — then this part becomes dangerous.

Because you’ll start molding your future self into society’s standards instead of Heaven’s vision.

But that’s why this blog is Part 3 — not Part 1.

When you take this journey in the right order — identity first, purpose next, then vision — now you can imagine your highest self from a place of alignment, not insecurity.

This isn’t about “fixing” you.

It’s about refining you.

It’s about taking what God already called good and asking, what does this look like at the next level?

👑: Start envisioning her. Your highest self. Then walk like her.

Here’s one powerful way I’ve done this:
✨ Stand in front of the mirror.
✨ Look at your body — every part of it.
✨ Ask yourself: What would this look like enhanced? What areas need strength? What habits would make this thrive?

Then I take that vision to my Vision Planner.

There’s a space to paste images — your version of beauty, wholeness, power.

There’s room to write out how she walks, how she talks, what she wears, how she nourishes her body, how she shows up.

Not based on pressure. Not based on trends.
But based on purpose.

Similar to how God sees the end from the beginning — this is you doing the same for you.

You’re stepping into alignment with what He already sees when He looks at you.

You’re building a clear picture of the healed, whole, powerful woman you are becoming — so you know exactly how to start being her.

📓 My Vision Planner isn’t just a tool — it’s a throne.

A sacred space where you build the blueprint of the Queen you were born to become.

👉🏽 Ready to see her clearly? Grab your planner My Vision Planner and let’s get to work.

👑: Next Up: Find the Gold- You've Been Overlooking It.

What if the very thing you keep criticizing is the key to your calling?

You’ve spent so long picking yourself apart, you haven’t seen the power that’s been there all along.

💫 In the next post, we’re flipping the script — from self-judgment to self-celebration.
Because that glow-up you’re praying for?

Sis… it’s already in you. Let’s dig it up — together.

With Love, ya gurlll,

Melissa Ingrid Lawrence