You’re Not Ugly, You're Loving the Wrong Image

“The more I've been grateful for what God has given me, the more things God has given me to be grateful for.” - Melissa Ingrid Lawrence

This one practice helped me shift my focus from what I wanted to change about myself to loving every inch of my body — exactly how God created me.

And let’s be honest — that’s not easy in a world that profits from our insecurities.

Too tall. Too short. Too thick. Too thin.
Too loud. Too quiet. Too dark. Too light.
Too much. Not enough.

When you're bombarded with messages that say you're not it, it’s easy to forget the truth: you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

I know because I used to see myself through a lens of inadequacy. I compared everything — my features, my body, my journey. But God showed me how to walk free.

And now, I want to help you do the same.

Holy Spirit Lead me through this 7 part framework to help me reclaim the image God gave me — and fully embrace the Queen He created me to be. Think of this as the appetizer. We’ll go all the way in on each section in the full series, but this right here? This is where the shift begins.

👑 1. It’s God’s Image — His Opinion Is the Only One That Matters

How this changes the game: You’ll stop chasing validation from the world and start living loved by the One who made you.

The first and most powerful move you can make? Letting God define your worth. His Word tells a different story about you — and it’s time you heard it.

👑 2. God Broke the Mold When He Made You

What this sets you up for: A mindset that finally stops nitpicking and starts honoring your design.

Your body isn’t a mistake to fix. It’s a design with divine intention. Just like the cheetah was made to run — you were made to thrive in your lane.

👑 3. The Crown Fits. See the Woman Who’ll Wear It.

What your future self will thank you for: Getting clear on her — the woman you were always meant to become.

You can’t walk in royalty if you don’t know what she looks like. This step helps you envision the best version of you, rooted in purpose and truth.

👑 4. Find the Gold — You’ve Been Overlooking It

The shift this brings: From self-judgment to self-celebration. You’ll stop missing the beauty that’s always been there.

You’ve been so focused on what you wish was different, you’ve missed the magic that’s already there. Let’s find it — together.

👑 5. Love It? Flaunt It, Sis

Why this matters: Because it’s time to show up like you believe God didn’t make a single mistake.

You don’t have to hide the parts of yourself you love. In fact, those are the exact parts you were meant to shine with.

👑 6. Conform Your Sight Until You See the Vision God Sees

What this teaches you: To align your thoughts with God’s truth — and stay there until you see it in the mirror.

This is the daily discipline that keeps your heart from wandering. When you change how you see, you change how you show up.

👑 7. Gratitude From the Ground Up (Literally)

How this will shift you: Into deep, embodied self-love — the kind that doesn’t fade with trends, but grows with truth.

This one practice changed everything for me. It started with a simple gratitude exercise — but ended with radical self-love. I’ll show you exactly how.

💎 Ready to See the Queen God Designed You to Be?

This framework is just the beginning — and if you’re ready to stop seeing yourself through the lens of culture and start seeing yourself through the eyes of Christ, I created something just for you.

✨ Download My Vision Planner — your step-by-step tool to define your God-given identity, design your dream life, and walk in clarity and confidence.

Because your self-love journey starts with vision.

And your vision starts here.